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	<title>possibility... &#187; Use of story</title>
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		<title>The &#8220;storytelling method&#8221; of learning new material</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 20:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cal Newport is a PhD student at MIT and author of two books: How to Become a Straight-A Student: The Unconventional Strategies Real College Students Use to Score High While Studying Less and How to Win at College: Surprising Secrets for Success from the Country&#8217;s Top Students.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cal Newport is a PhD student at MIT and author of two books: <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0767922719?tag=stuhac-20&amp;camp=14573&amp;creative=327641&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0767922719&amp;adid=06MK44K3DYKV5GZM60NZ&amp;">How to Become a Straight-A Student</a>: The Unconventional Strategies Real College Students Use to Score High While Studying Less</em> and <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0767917871?tag=stuhac-20&amp;camp=14573&amp;creative=327641&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0767917871&amp;adid=07NWYZ39542XQK76T36N&amp;">How to Win at College</a>: Surprising Secrets for Success from the Country&#8217;s Top Students</em>.</p>
<p>He also has a fascinating blog called <em><a href="http://calnewport.com/blog/">Study Hacks</a>: Demystifying College Success</em> which offers some interesting techniques for all of us who have to incorporate new information in our daily work or study. I was particularly intrigued by this one: &#8220;<a href="http://calnewport.com/blog/2008/09/01/monday-master-class-the-story-telling-method/">The Story Telling Method</a>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Newport writes: &#8220;The Story Telling Method has an important benefit: it takes the large volume of information you just received and organizes it within a coherent framework.&#8221; Makes a lot of sense to me and is a strategy that I&#8217;ve used for years without really thinking about it. If you&#8217;re battling information overload like most of us, check out this post and the rest of his blog for some practical tips.</p>
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		<title>That happened to me once &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 16:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long-term employees, regardless of their job title, become &#8220;walking encyclopedias&#8221; of organizational information, job tips, short-cuts, political/personal hot potatoes to avoid, historical alliances, technology trial and error, and understanding of how and why things are as they are. When these workers leave an organization, a critical piece of history leaves with them. Losing tacit knowledge [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long-term employees, regardless of their job title, become &#8220;walking encyclopedias&#8221; of organizational information, job tips, short-cuts, political/personal hot potatoes to avoid, historical alliances, technology trial and error, and understanding of how and why things are as they are. When these workers leave an organization, a critical piece of history leaves with them. Losing tacit knowledge with retirees and others moving on to new positions has always been a concern but with the imminent wave of baby boomer retirements, it&#8217;s a potential crisis for some organizations.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m writing an in-depth article about the use of &#8220;story&#8221; in capturing knowledge from employees before they move on. If you&#8217;ve ever tried to write a &#8220;manual&#8221; to leave behind when you move to a new position, you are very familiar with the challenges of imparting ALL of what you know. Some say that knowledge is &#8220;social&#8221;&#8230; that we need to have conversations with others in order for it to come to the surface or to be transferred. We&#8217;ve all experienced the realization that we know much more that we thought we knew&#8211;that we can articulate knowledge in conversation that we could not have produced without the discussion.</p>
<p>While &#8220;story&#8221; may be an element of mentoring, coaching, and other approaches to knowledge exchange, I&#8217;m specifically interested in story as the primary technique. It may be used within a community of practice model, brown-bag lunch sessions, or exit interviews &#8230; or possibly many other scenarios. These are the types of situations I&#8217;m interested in hearing about.</p>
<p>A parallel interest is that features of organizational culture that encourage development and transfer of tacit knowledge (space and opportunity for conversation, valuing interpersonal communication and sharing of experiences, appreciation for individual experience and exploration) are also features that nurture creativity in the workplace. Is there recognition or acknowledgement of such a link within organizations nurturing tacit knowledge exchange? Is creativity recognized as a valuable by-product of &#8220;story as a tool for knowledge exchange&#8221;&#8211;or vice versa?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d be very interested in hearing from you if you have experience with this topic (on either side&#8211;as a leaving employee or as a facilitator) or if you know of organizations utilizing story for knowledge strategies with employees who are leaving.</p>
<p>Please contact me by email at shelley AT shourstonandassociates DOT com. Thanks for your help!</p>
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		<title>A story about making a difference</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2007 18:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Watch this very short video to see the power of story at work. We all really do have the ability to make a difference in our own way.
This video is called Simple Truths of Service Inspired by Johnny the Bagger by Ken Blanchard and Barbara Glanz and is one of a series of wonderful short [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.simpletruths.com/movies/mov_stsr.jpg" title="Simple Truths of Service" alt="Simple Truths of Service" align="left" height="118" width="100" />Watch this very short <a href="http://www.stservicemovie.com">video</a> to see the power of story at work. We all really do have the ability to make a difference in our own way.</p>
<p>This video is called <em>Simple Truths of Service Inspired by Johnny the Bagger</em> by Ken Blanchard and Barbara Glanz and is one of a <a href="http://www.simpletruths.com/movies/">series</a> of wonderful short and inspiring films.</p>
<p>Thank you Robert Middleton (<a href="http://www.actionplan.com/" title="Action Plan Marketing">Action Plan Marketing</a>) for sharing this story with me.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Made to Stick:&#8221; concrete advice for the even the most reluctant self-marketer</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2007 20:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every once in a while you come across a book that is extraordinary—it offers new insight, has some credibility or research behind it, and provides practical “here’s how to do it” advice. Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die by Chip Heath and Dan Heath (New York: Random House, 2007) is one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.madetostick.com/images/site_03.gif" title="Made to Stick book cover" alt="Made to Stick book cover" align="left" height="225" width="175" />Every once in a while you come across a book that is extraordinary—it offers new insight, has some credibility or research behind it, and provides practical “here’s how to do it” advice. <em>Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die</em> by Chip Heath and Dan Heath (New York: Random House, 2007) is one of those books! I’d been hearing about it for the past year and finally made my way through the wait list at my public library. I’ve just read it twice and can hardly wait to get my own copy of the Heath’s brilliant (and I do mean brilliant—just look at that orange cover!) publication so I can add notes and comments in the margins.</p>
<p>So what do “sticky ideas” have to do with &#8220;reluctant self-marketers&#8221;—a label I use with empathy and a great deal of insider knowledge? Chip Heath, a professor of organizational behaviour at Stanford and Dan Heath, a former researcher at Harvard and now a consultant, use “story” to convey the secrets of successful and memorable communication. The Heaths write (p. 16), “As we pored over hundreds of sticky ideas, we saw, over and over, the same six principles at work.” They go on to describe the six principles with fascinating research, stories, and examples. The principles are: simplicity, unexpectedness, concreteness, credibility, emotions, and stories. The acronym for their recipe is SUCCESs. <em>Made to Stick</em> is one of the most useful resources I’ve found—for those of us who are reluctant self-marketers as well as for the rest of you. You can visit the <a href="http://www.madetostick.com">website</a> for articles, interviews and Chip and Dan Heath’s blog.</p>
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		<title>Introducing &#8230; &#8220;Career Kick Start for Recent or Soon-to-be Graduates Program</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 00:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m delighted to announce my new program, Career Kick Start for Recent or Soon-to-be Grads. Brief info below is from the press release. You can also read a more detailed program description.  I have another program and a workshop under development as well. More info is available here.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m delighted to announce my new program, <em>Career Kick Start for Recent or Soon-to-be Grads</em>. Brief info below is from the press release. You can also read a more detailed program <a href="http://www.shourstonandassociates.com/careerkickstart.html" title="Career Kick Start Program Description">description</a>.  I have another program and a workshop under development as well. More info is available <a href="http://www.shourstonandassociates.com/services.html" title="Services">here</a>.</p>
<p>Career Kick Start for Recent or Soon-to-be Graduates Program<br />
December 18, 2007 (Vancouver, BC)<br />
In a five week one-on-one training program, story and communication facilitator Shelley Hourston guides recent or soon-to-be graduates through a process that highlights their strengths and expertise, significantly increasing their confidence. Participants develop a &#8216;portfolio&#8217; or collection of stories demonstrating their experience and skills. They can then use these stories to communicate their strengths to potential employers. In the words of one participant: &#8220;Today&#8217;s interview was such a testament to our sessions! I used story examples to answer a lot of the questions and did not have any problems with the &#8216;big&#8217; questions as I usually do.&#8221; Gift certificates for <em>Career Kick Start for Recent Graduates</em> are now available. [<a href="http://www.shourstonandassociates.com/prdecember182007.pdf" title="Career Kick Start Program Press Release">more</a>]</p>
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		<title>A definitive guide to writing your own stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2007 00:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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Annette Simmons, author of numerous books, including The Story Factor, has a new title called Whoever Tells the Best Story Wins: How to Use Your Own Stories to Communicate with Power and Impact. In this book, Simmons provides a guide to developing personal stories to cover any scenario we are likely to encounter in [...]]]></description>
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<p>Annette Simmons, author of numerous books, including <em>The Story Factor</em>, has a new title called <em>Whoever Tells the Best Story Wins: How to Use Your Own Stories to Communicate with Power and Impact</em>. In this book, Simmons provides a guide to developing personal stories to cover any scenario we are likely to encounter in our professional (and personal) lives, including: Who-I-am stories, Why-I-am-here stories, Teaching stories, Vision stories, Value-in-action stories, and I-know-what-you-are-thinking stories. Full of examples to illustrate her ideas, this book describes why story is so powerful and when and how to use stories successfully. If you are unsure of the value of story in communicating your character and expertise, this book will convince you. If you are already a believer, this book is a treasure and a lot of fun to read.</p>
<p>You can read more about Annette Simmons and her work at her website, <a href="http://groupprocessconsulting.com">Group Process Consulting</a>.</p>
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		<title>A &#8220;growth mindset:&#8221; yet another reason for exploring our story</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2007 16:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I&#8217;ve said before, I believe that communication of strengths and expertise is most successfully achieved through story. The simplest, most efficient and least stressful way to market ourselves is to tell stories to illustrate our attributes. When I work with clients to help them create a portfolio of stories to illustrate their strengths and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I&#8217;ve said before, I believe that communication of strengths and expertise is most successfully achieved through story. The simplest, most efficient and least stressful way to market ourselves is to tell stories to illustrate our attributes. When I work with clients to help them create a portfolio of stories to illustrate their strengths and expertise, I remind them to also consider the situations in which they have learned from not-so-positive experiences. Often our failures teach us more than our successes, especially if we have the courage and patience to look back and draw upon the lessons. That standard interview question, &#8220;What is your weakness?&#8221; can become an opportunity to show your growth potential and your ability to accept challenges and learn from experience.</p>
<p>Stanford psychologist and author of <em>Mindset: The New Psychology of Success</em>, Carol Dweck, highlights the importance of how we interpret our stories or our experiences. I believe that by developing a reflective approach that consciously explores our stories, we can capitalize on what Dweck calls a &#8220;growth mindset.&#8221;</p>
<p>Dweck writes about &#8220;the nature of change&#8221; at the <a href="http://www.mindsetonline.com/changeyourmindset/natureofchange/index.html# "><em>Mindset</em></a> website:<br />
<em>Whether they’re aware of it or not, all people keep a running account of what’s happening to them, what it means, and what they should do. In other words, our minds are constantly monitoring and interpreting. That’s just how we stay on track. But sometimes the interpretation process goes awry. Some people put more extreme interpretations on things that happen—and then react with exaggerated feelings of anxiety, depression, or anger. Or superiority.</p>
<p>Mindsets frame the running account that’s taking place in people’s heads. They guide the whole interpretation process. The fixed mindset creates an internal monologue that is focused on judging: “This means I’m a loser.” “This means I’m a better person than they are.” “This means I’m a bad husband.” “This means my partner is selfish.”</p>
<p>People with a growth mindset are also constantly monitoring what’s going on, but their internal monologue is not about judging themselves and others in this way. Certainly they’re sensitive to positive and negative information, but they’re attuned to its implications for learning and constructive action: What can I learn from this? How can I improve? How can I help my partner do this better?<br />
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<p>You can also read an excellent article about Dweck&#8217;s work in the March/April 2007 <a href="http://www.stanfordalumni.org/news/magazine/2007/marapr/features/dweck.html"><em>Stanford Magazine</em></a></p>
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		<title>Story: the ethereal glue of person-to-person marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2007 16:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you are the interviewee or the interviewer, your success will depend on how you communicate the ethereal glue &#8230; the emotion, passion, excitement, integrity, pride, and enthusiasm that flows between and around the words you use to express the facts. I&#8217;m talking about the atmospheric fog that can swirl through the discussion between two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you are the interviewee or the interviewer, your success will depend on how you communicate the <em>ethereal glue</em> &#8230; the emotion, passion, excitement, integrity, pride, and enthusiasm that flows between and around the words you use to express the facts. I&#8217;m talking about the atmospheric fog that can swirl through the discussion between two people. It&#8217;s what causes one person to lean forward with interest or to lean back and relax into a story. Without the ethereal glue&#8211;the story&#8211;the interview or meeting is dry, ordinary, less than memorable. Undoubtedly, both the interviewee and the interviewer are very interested in the facts&#8211;the qualifications, the salary etc. But the stories used to communicate the facts will always tip the scales.</p>
<p>Christian Buckley agrees. He says:<br />
<em>Both hiring manager and job candidate have a story to tell. The interview is just as much about the hiring manager telling a compelling story about why the candidate should want to come to work for that company, as it is about the candidate wanting to tell a compelling story about why she should be hired. People need to do more than answer simple questions, and provide basic responses&#8211;they need to provide a narrative around their experience. They need to engage the listener, express some passion, and make it a memorable experience. Whether interviewing for a job, talking to potential investors about your company or idea, or conducting a project meeting within your company&#8211;make sure your story is compelling, and people will pay attention.<br />
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[From "Mangosteens, Adhocracy and a Working Life: An Interview with Christian Buckley" by Aneeta Sundararaj on May 3, 2006. For the full interview, visit her website, <a href="http://www.howtotellagreatstory.com/byot/byot27.html">How to Tell a Great Story</a>]</p>
<p>Buckley was responding to a question from Sundararaj about what he meant when he wrote: &#8220;inteviewing is storytelling&#8221; on his blog called <em>Life is Work</em> (which unfortunately seems to be defunct) Read more from Buckley at <em><a href="http://www.buckleyplanet.com/">buckleyPLANET: Musings on collaboration technology, marketing, and the evolving world of management</a></em>).</p>
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		<title>Be prepared! How to use stories about your strengths</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Sep 2007 01:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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Roger Carl Schank&#8217;s work originally focused on artificial intelligence (AI) and how computers could be programmed based on what we know about how human beings learn. Since then, he has shifted his focus from AI to  human intelligence.
In the following quote from pages 84-85 of his book Tell Me a Story: Narrative and Intelligence [...]]]></description>
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<p>Roger Carl Schank&#8217;s work originally focused on artificial intelligence (AI) and how computers could be programmed based on what we know about how human beings learn. Since then, he has shifted his focus from AI to  human intelligence.</p>
<p>In the following quote from pages 84-85 of his book <em>Tell Me a Story: Narrative and Intelligence</em> (Evanston, IL: Northwestern University Press,  1995),  Shank says:</p>
<p><em>It is all well and good to say that understanding means telling good stories and to say that we respond to stories with stories, but this leaves out a key question: How do we find the stories that we wish to tell? And from this question there follows another question: How does one know that one has a story to tell? The answer to both these questions is one word: indexing.</em> [Music to a librarian's ears!]</p>
<p><em>No matter how the story of Artificial Intelligence is told, no matter whose point of view is adopted about how the mind works or how a computer mind might work, the problem always reduces to search. A mind must be able to find what it needs to find, and it must know that it has found it. To tell a story, you must have labeled it properly, stored it away with a name that will allow it to be found, possibly many years later, when some process calls its name. If there is no way to find a story, it might as well not exist. If it cannot be found by reference to its content rather than by reference to a number or unrevealing name, for example, then it might as well not be there.<br />
</em><br />
How often do you think of a story about an experience in your past in<br />
response to a conversation or event today? Sometimes we remember things that we haven&#8217;t thought of for years. Shank&#8217;s comments highlight the importance of preparing in advance the stories that illustrate our strengths and expertise. Walking into a job interview or meeting with a potential client HOPING that you&#8217;ll hear something that will spark a memory of a perfect story is VERY optimistic &#8230; and probably not very effective. If your goal is to convey your best self, don&#8217;t rely on your indexing system! Stress has a way of wreaking havoc on human indexing systems.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the answer? Have a collection of your stories ready to draw upon! Spend time identifying your strengths, attributes, and expertise<br />
well before you ever meet someone who might be interested. This is an exercise that will take more than an hour at a cafe. Ask your colleagues and friends for their opinions&#8211;as difficult as that might be. It&#8217;s human nature to play down our strengths and knowledge.</p>
<p>Once you have a list of strengths and expertise, develop a portfolio<br />
(written to start, but you&#8217;ll need to be able to recall them at will) of<br />
stories&#8211;experiences that illustrate your skills in action&#8211;not a<br />
shopping list of events. These should be interesting stories that<br />
communicate your emotion and enthusiasm as well as your strengths. They need not be long and might be only a few sentences long. My favourites are the stories that can be used to convey a range of different strenghts or positives. In fact, I&#8217;ve been told that my use of a particular story more than once in a job interview indicated an ability to perceive different aspects of a situation [yes, I got the job].</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re preparing for an interview or meeting, knowing as much as possible about what the interviewer or client wants is key to being<br />
prepared with your best stories.</p>
<p>Good luck! Let me know how it goes.</p>
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		<title>Stories for self-marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 18:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been hearing a lot about marketing for introverts. Maybe it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m an introvert &#8230; or maybe it&#8217;s just our turn. Recently I came across an interesting article on the <em>Wall Street Journal</em> website called &#8220;<a href="http://www.careerjournal.com/columnists/perspective/20050117-fmp.html">Self-Marketing Rules For Successful Introverts</a>&#8221; by By Nancy Ancowitz. She writes, &#8220;Introverts may excel at marketing other people and products, but compared to many extroverts, marketing ourselves does not always come naturally. In a world that seems to reward glad-handing and horn-tooting, how can we attract the best employers and clients?&#8221;</p>
<p>Ancowitz offers nine excellent self-promotion tips for introverts and the first is:&#8221;You don&#8217;t need to brag to promote yourself. However, by preparing well for encounters in advance, you&#8217;ll have ready indisputable facts about your accomplishments and what you excel at and enjoy, plus you&#8217;ll feel comfortable stating them.&#8221;</p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t that sound like the definition of a story? For those of us who feel uncomfortable conveying our strengths and achievements, there&#8217;s nothing like a story to capture the highlights. Stories are a delight for the listener and a painless way for the storyteller to communicate our interests and abilities.</p>
<p>Want a tip from this introvert though? Ancowitz is right. Preparing in advance is key. Don&#8217;t rely on your memory and dazzling communication skills to profile your strengths in stressful networking opportunities (which of course include the bus stop, the grocery store, workshops, and more formal networking events). Prepare by  creating a &#8220;mental portfolio&#8221; of stories communicating your strengths and accomplishments that you can draw on when opportunity knocks.</p>
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